MIKVA GUIDE FOR THE MALE CONVERT

DEAREST STUDENT!

WE ARE MOVED AND EXCITED AS YOU APPROACH THE TIME OF IMMERSION IN THE MIKVA

THE FOLLOWING GUIDE INCLUDES IMPORTANT THINGS TO KNOW BEFOREHAND

YOU SHOULD RECEIVE THE IMMERSION DATE WHEN YOU SUCCESSFULLY PASS THE MEETING WITH THE BEIT DIN – ON YOUR WAY OUT OF THE REGIONAL ADMINISTRATIVE OFFICE IN THE BUILDING WILL GIVE YOU THE DATE. THERE YOU WILL ALSO RECEIVE THE ADDRESS OF THE MIKVA THAT SUITS YOUR NEEDS.  IT IS IMPORTANT TO ARRIVE AT THE MIKVA AT THE PROPER DATE AND TIME SET FOR YOU.

IF YOU HAVE QUESTIONS OR PROBLEMS, CALL THE REGIONAL OFFICES AT THE FOLLOWING NUMBERS:

JERUSALEM: 02-5099100

TEL AVIV: 03-7406100

HAIFA: 04-6718104

KIRIYAT GAT: 08-6620900

IF THERE IS NO ANSWER AT THE ABOVE NUMBERS, CALL

CHAYA AT NATIV: 02-6204488

 

BEFORE THE MIKVA

  • THE MIKVA APPOINTMENT FORM GIVEN TO YOU AT THE BEIT DIN
  • YOUR ISRAELI IDENTITY CARD (TEUDAT ZEHUT)
  • TOWEL, TOOTHBRUSH AND TOOTHPASTE, SHAMPOO, FLIP FLOPS, HAIRBRUSH, A CONTAINER FOR CONTACT LENSES
  • A SIDDUR, TEFILLIN AND A KIPA ON YOUR HEAD.
  • PLEASE ARRIVE IN MODEST AND RESPECTFUL CLOTHING

YOU MUST COME ONLY TO THE MIKVA YOU WERE ASSIGNED AND NOT ANOTHER MIKVA.

  • HATZOR: 2 OR 4 HACHASIDA STREET (ENTRANCE FROM BOTH ADDRESSES)
  • TEL AVIV: 3 MARK YAAKOV STREET, HADAR YOSEF NEIGHBORHOOD
  • HOD HASHARON: 13 ALEXANDER HAGADOL STREET (ENTRANCE ACTUALLY VIA 18 SHIMON HATZADIK STREET), NEVE NEEMAN NEIGHBORHOOD

IN THE EVENT THAT A CIRCUMCISION IS NECESSARY, THE BEIT DIN WILL GIVE YOU DETAIOLED INSTRUCTIONS.  THE CIRCUMCISION IS PERFORMED BY A LICENSED SURGEON  IN A HOSPITAL UNDER STERILE CONDITIONS WITH A LOCAL ANESTHETIC.  ONE CAN RETURN TO FULL FUNCTION AFTER A FEW HOURS.  AFTER MEDICAL PERMISSION ONE CAN MAKE AN APPOINTMENT FOR IMMERSION IN THE MIKVA, WHERE YOU WILL IMMERSE WITHOUT ANY REQUIREMENT FOR HATAFAT DAM (DRAWING OF A SYMBOLIC DROP OF BLOOD).

ONE WHO HAS UNDERGONE CIRCUMCISION BEFORE CONVERSION WILL REQUIRE HATAFAT DAM AT THE MIKVE ITSELF VIA A CERTIFIED MOHEL.  THIS PROCEDURE IS A PAINLESS QUICK PROCEDURE VIA PRICKING BRIEFLY WITH A TINY NEEDLE, THROUGH WHICH ONE PEFORMS THE MITZVA OF CIRCUMCISION.

 

IN ORDER FOR THE WATERS OF THE MIKVA TO REACH EVERY POINT ON THE BODY, IT IS IMPORTANT THAT NOTHING COMES BETWEEN THE BODY AND THE WATER.  THEREFORE IT IS ESSENTIAL TO PREPARE BEFOREHAND.

PREPARATION AT HOME:

  • SHOWER OR BATHING, SHAMPOOING THE HAIR (AND BEARD IF YOU HAVE ONE), LOOSENING ALL KNOTS IN THE HAIR, CUTTING AND CLEANING NAILS..
  • One must remove all jewelry before the immersion.
  • earrings must be removed early enough in oreder to varify that there is no wound or secretions from the earring hole.
  • A PERMANENT TATTOO IS NOT A PROBLEM FOR IMMERSION IN THE MIKVA
  • IF YOU WEAR CONTACT LENSES, YOU MUST REMOVE THEM IMMEDIATELY PRIOR TO IMMERSION IN THE MIKVA (BRING A CONTAINER TO PUT THEM IN).
  • IF YOU HAVE UNDERGONE A MEDICAL PROCEDURE AND YOU HAVE STITCHES OR ANY OTHER MAJOR WOUND, CONTACT THE OFFICE OF THE BEIT DIN YOU WERE IN AND THEY WILL DIRECT YOU TO THE RELEVANT PERSON THAT WILL ADVISE YOU ON THE MATTER.

 

WHEN YOU GET TO THE MIKVA

WHEN YOU ARRIVE AT THE MIKVA YOU MUST REGISTER WITH THE ADMINISTRATOR AND THEN WAIT FOR YOUR TURN TO IMMERSE. ONE OF THE MIKVA STAFF WILL ACCOMPANY AND INSTRUCT YOU THROUGHOUT THE PROCESS AND HE WILL TAKE CARE OF ALL YOUR NEEDS.

HATAFAT DAM IS SIMPLE AND QUICK. IT IS ALMOST COMPLETELY PAINLESS (SIMPLER AND LESS PAINFUL THAN A BLOOD TEST).  THE NEEDLE PRICK IS PERFORMED WITH A STERILE DISPOSABLE NEEDLE.  LIKE ALL IMPORTANT STAGES OF THE CONVERSION PROCESS IT IS PERFORMED IN THE PRESENCE OF THREE BEIT DIN RABBIS (I.E. three RABBIS and the mohel will be present in the room). after the hatafat dam,  one should wait a few minutes and then shower and prepare for the immersion in the mikva.

 

  • AFTER REGISTERING, YOU WILL BE SENT TO DO THE FINAL PREPARATIONS BEFORE THE IMMERSION: COMBING THE HAIR, REMOVING ALL CLOTHING, WRAPPING YOURSELF IN A TOWEL AND PUTTING ON YOUR FLIP FLOPS. IF YOU HAVE EATEN SINCE LEAVING HOME, YOU MUST BRUSH YOUR TEETH.  IF YOU WEAR CONTACT LENSES, THIS IS THE TIME TO REMOVE THEM.
  • THE MIKVA MAN WILL THEN ACCOMPANY YOU TO THE MIKVA AND CHECK THAT THERE IS NOTHING ON YOUR BODY THAT WILL COME BETWEEN YOUR BODY AND THE WATER OF THE MIKVA.
  • YOU WILL THEN GO DOWN THE STAIRS INTO THE MIKVA WITHOUT YOUR CLOTHES, AND IMMERSE THE FIRST TIME COMPLETELEY (INCLUDING YOUR HEAD).
  • THREE RABBIS OF THE BEIT DIN WILL ENTER THE ROOM AND WITNESS YOUR SECOND IMMERSION. THEY WILL ASK YOU A FEW QUESTIONS RELATING TO YOUR DECISION TO CONVERT.  DON’T WORRY – THIS IS NOT A TEST!
  • THEN YOU PUT ON A KIPA OR A TOWEL, “HUG YOURSELF” AND SAY THE BLESSING FOR IMMERSION IN THE MIKVA: “BARUCH ATA A-DONAI ELO-HEINU MELECH HAOLAM ASHER KIDSHANU BEMITZVOTAV VETZIVANU AL HATEVILA”.
  • OFTEN THE RABBIS WILL ASK YOU TO DECLARE BEFORE THEM YOUR DESIRE TO ACCEPT THE MITZVOT AND TO SAY THE WORDS “SHEMA YISRAEL A-DONAI ELO-HEINU A-DONAI ECHAD” (LIKE IN THE BEIT DIN). DON’T WORRY IF YOU ARE NERVOUS AND FORGET THE WORDS – THE RABBIS WILL HELP AND TELL YOU WHAT TO SAY.
  • THE RABBIS THEN LEAVE THE ROOM, AND THEN YOU EXIT FROM THE WATER AND GO TO GET DRESSED. YOU WILL SHOWER AT HOME.
  • THOSE WHO WOULD LIKE TO RECITE THE “SHEHECHIYANU” BLESSING RECITED ON ESPECIALLY JOYOUS AND NEW OCCASIONS MAY DO SO, AS LONG AS THEY ALSO RECITE THE BLESSING ON A NEW ARTICLE OF CLOTHING OR JEWELERY, OR ON A NEW FRUIT OF THE SEASON.  THE BLESSING IS THEN RECITED BOTH ON THE CONVERSION AND ON THE NEW OBJECT.

HOW TO IMMERSE IN THE MIKVA?

ONE STANDS IN THE WATER, ARMS NOT TOUCHING THE BODY, LEGS NOT TOUCHING EACH OTHER, HANDS AND FINGERS OPEN AND NOT TOUCHING EACH OTHER, EYES AND MOUTH SOFTLY CLOSED, WITH THE BODY LEANING SLIGHTLY FORWARD:

AFTER THE IMMERSION YOU ARE HALACHICALLY AND LEGALLY CONSIDERED A JEW.  OFTEN THE RABBIS WILL WILL MENTION THE NEED TO LAY TEFILLIN, SINCE AS A JEW YOU HAVE AN OBLIGATION TO LAY TEFILLIN TODAY.

THERE IS A BEAUTIFUL PRAYER THAT CAN BE RECITED AFTER THE IMMERSION OF YOU SO DESIRE:

PRAYER FOR THE CONVERT WHO HAS JUST IMMERSED IN THE MIKVA (BASED ON A PRAYER WRITTEN BY RABBI ELDAD ZAMIR):

MASTER OF THE WORLD, WITH HEART FULL OF EMOTION AND JOY, I HAVE MERITED TO COMPLETE A CIRCLE.  MY SOUL, THAT STOOD WITH THE JEWISH PEOPLE AT SINAI, HAS NOW RETURNED TO THE SOURCE FROM WHICH IT WAS CREATED.  TODAY IS A VERY SPECIAL DAY, THAT I HAVE LONG HOPED AND WISHED FOR SO – THANK YOU MY GOD.  MAY IT BE YOUR WILL, MY GOD AND GOD OF MY FOREFATHERS, THAT I WILL KEEP AND STRENGTHEN THE STRONG TIES THAT I HAVE BUILT WITH MY JEWISH ROOTS AND WITH YOU GOD.  MAY I LIVE MY LIFE IN GOOD FAITH TO THE PEOPLE OF ISRAEL.  MAY I FIND THE STRENGTH TO STAND UP TO THE CHALLENGES BEFORE ME.  MAY I BE STRONG IN CONTINUING THE NEW PATH WITHOUT SHAME, ALONG WITH STRENGTHENING THE TIES WITH MY FAMILY AND ALL THOSE I LOVE.  MAY I FIND THE WISDOM TO SHOW ALL THOSE I LOVE THAT THIS HAS MADE ME A BETTER PERSON, MORE SENSITIVE AND MORE RESPECTFUL.  MAY I FIND THE PATIENCE AND STRENGTH TO CREATE MY PATH INTO THE JEWISH COMMUNITY IN THE WAY OF SARAH, REBECCA, RACHEL AND LEAH, AND WITH YOUR HELP FULFILL ALL MY DREAMS AND GOALS TO BUILD A FAITHFUL HOUSE IN ISRAEL.

MAY IT BE THY WILL THAT YOUR PEOPLE OF ISRAEL SHALL NOT FAIL IN FULFILLING THE MITZVA OF LOVING THE CONVERT, AS IS WRITTEN “FOR YOU WERE ALL STRANGERS IN A STRANGE LAND” –  THAT EVERY JEW REMEMBER WHERE WE WERE STRANGERS IN EGYPT; AND AS IT IS WRITTEN IN THE AMIDA SILENT PRAYER: “HAVE MERCY UPON THE RIGHTEOUS AND THE PIOUS AND THE RIGHTEOUS CONVERTS AND UPON ALL OF ISRAEL”; AND AS IS WRITTEN IN PSALMS:  “WHO LOVES  LIFE AND DESIRES TO SEE MANY GOOD DAYS?…AVOID EVIL AND DO GOOD, SEEK PEACE AND PERSUE IT”. SO MAY IT BE THY WILL AMEN. 

CEREMONY FOLLOWING THE MIKVA IMMERSION

SOMETIMES TEACHERS ORGANIZE A JOINT EMOTIONAL CEREMONY FOR ALL THOSE STUDENTS THAT HAVE IMMERSED ON THE SAME DAY, INCLUDING JOINT PRAYERS AND BLESSINGS FOR SUCCESS.  IF SUCH A CEREMONY IS PLANNED FOR YOUR DAY YOU WILL BE INFORMED BEFOREHAND.  IT’S SAFE TO ASSUME THAT THE CEREMONY WILL INCLUDE THE LAYING OF TEFILLIN.

IN THAT CASE YOU WILL WAIT FOR ALL THE CONVERTS TO COMPLETE THEIR IMMERSION AND THEN THE CEREMONY WILL TAKE PLACE FOR ALL TOGETHER.

FOR ALL QUESTIONS AND INQUIRIES
YOU SHOULD CONTACT YOUR TEACHER.  ALTERNATIVELY YOU CAN ALWAYS CALL THE NATIV OFFICES AT 026204488/90

WE ARE FULL OF EMOTION FOR YOU AND WISH YOU GREAT SUCCESS!

THE NATIV FAMILY

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